Lets Talk It Out

Tag: growth mindset

  • What People Say About You Doesn’t Define You

    In life, there will always be hundreds of people who have something to say about you — and not all of it will be kind. The truth is, you can’t control what others choose to think or speak. And you shouldn’t try to.

    What you can control is how much space you allow those voices to take in your mind.

    If someone is genuinely important to you, talk to them. Clarify things once. Maybe twice, if the situation repeats. But beyond that, stop chasing explanations. Constantly needing to justify yourself is not a sign of love or respect — it’s a sign of a weak relationship.

    People who truly value you will not make you defend yourself over and over again.

    Let your peace come from within, not from others opinion.

  • If You Never Start, You’ll Never Get Better

    Many people hold back because they feel they aren’t good enough — too shy to speak, too inexperienced to create, or too afraid to fail. The truth is, maybe you aren’t good enough right now. But that’s exactly why you need to start.

    No one becomes skilled, confident, or successful by waiting to feel ready. Every expert you admire was once a beginner who stumbled, hesitated, and doubted themselves — but they started. Starting is not a sign of perfection; it’s a decision to grow.

    Progress doesn’t come from thinking about it, it comes from doing — even if the first few tries are messy. You learn by showing up, by trying again, by adjusting. Confidence is built through repetition.

    So stop waiting for the perfect moment or perfect version of yourself. Begin where you are, with what you have. Because if you never start, you’ll never know how good you could become.