Lets Talk It Out

Category: love

  • People do understand!!

    When We Talk, People Understand

    Many times we assume people won’t understand us.

    We hold back our feelings out of anger, hesitation, embarrassment or fear.

    But the truth is simple — when we actually talk, people usually do understand.

    Most misunderstandings don’t come from bad intentions; they come from silence.

    One honest conversation can clear confusion, soften hearts, and make things easier than we imagined.

    Communication isn’t just talking — it’s allowing someone to see our side, our feelings, our reality.

    And more often than not,

    a simple conversation can fix what silence complicates.

  • What People Say About You Doesn’t Define You

    In life, there will always be hundreds of people who have something to say about you — and not all of it will be kind. The truth is, you can’t control what others choose to think or speak. And you shouldn’t try to.

    What you can control is how much space you allow those voices to take in your mind.

    If someone is genuinely important to you, talk to them. Clarify things once. Maybe twice, if the situation repeats. But beyond that, stop chasing explanations. Constantly needing to justify yourself is not a sign of love or respect — it’s a sign of a weak relationship.

    People who truly value you will not make you defend yourself over and over again.

    Let your peace come from within, not from others opinion.

  • When Work Feels Too Much

    Lately, I’ve been feeling overwhelmed — not in a loud, obvious way, but in a quiet, persistent kind of way.
    Work keeps piling on, my mind won’t stop racing, and I catch myself overthinking even the smallest things.
    The result? Constant headaches, scattered thoughts, and this unshakable heaviness.

    It’s not just the workload — it’s the pressure to always “be on,” to always perform, to respond quickly, smile politely, and keep it all together. And truthfully, it’s exhausting.

    What I’m Realising

    • Not every thought deserves space.
      Overthinking solves nothing. I’m learning to let some thoughts go.
    • Tiny breaks help more than I thought.
      A 10-minutes walk, a cup of tea, or just silence — it matters.
    • Being tired doesn’t mean I’m weak.
      It just means I’m human, and I need rest too.

    Final Thought

    If you’re in the same place, here’s a gentle reminder:
    You’re allowed to slow down. You don’t have to carry it all at once.
    Even in the middle of stress — breathe. That’s still progress !

  • Love – Good OR Bad

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    With absolute honesty, I don’t understand love, what is it, which feeling is exactly termed as love. Is it when you can’t stop thinking about the other person, is it when you forget your own self just for the happiness of the other person, is it when you put all the needs of other person above yourself?

    Love is a beautiful feeling, one feels so pure so happy so close to something divine, magical yet there are feelings of disrespect, taken for granted, etc too. So when is it that love is love and when is it that love stops being love.